Work-life balance is something everyone is struggling with. Does it even exist? Let’s discuss!
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About Katy
Katy is co-founder of @ModFemmeMove and @WomenOnline_com. Katy is motivated by a very personal connection to female entrepreneurs and working moms.
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Questions we discussed
Q1 Let’s talk about Modern Femme Movement. What’s the story and the goal?
@seosmarty Still working on the work-life balance! Grateful for @ModFemmeMove to help navigate life as a working mom! #VCBuzz
— A Lovin’ Spoonful (@alovinspoonful) October 11, 2016
@ModFemmeMove began as a convo w/ #womenwhowork. Tired of the pressure to perform. We’re thirsty for #real community!
Work is life. #vcbuzz
— Don Sturgill (@DonSturgill) October 11, 2016
@ModFemmeMove helps #women discover their own definition of #success so they can thrive at #work and at home.
The women of @ModFemmeMove are #WAHM #SAHM #womenwhowork #femaleentrepreneurs #smallbiz owners. All are welcome! I’m a #WAHM #femaleentrepreneur #singlemom. My #smallbiz partner @somerchambley is a former #USMC helicopter pilot #SAHM.
@ModFemmeMove so needed. The WLB insanity is not talked about enough – makes a huge difference in our lives, families, and business #vcbuzz
— Dana Brownlee (@DanaBrownlee) October 11, 2016
@ModFemmeMove reminds #women – true #success = #life that thrives at #work AND at #home. We need both. We deserve both.
I often refer to WL harmony bc it’s rarely 50/50. It’s @ prioritizing, making conscious choices, communicating clearly @ModFemmeMove #vcbuzz
— Dana Brownlee (@DanaBrownlee) October 11, 2016
@chaosandkiddos Love watching you in action! Can’t wait for @ModFemmeMov #MFM2017! #vcbuzz
— Martha Brettschneide (@marthabrett) October 11, 2016
Yes!! Love that! Harmony!!! @DanaBrownlee Communication is the KEY. #vcbuzz
— Katy Blevins (@chaosandkiddos) October 11, 2016
Q2 What are the biggest struggles female entrepreneurs have to face? Can all of them be solved?
We struggle to communicate our needs, make time for self-care. Must admit that perfection does not exist. We must let go.
Many female entrepreneurs & women who work struggle to feel worthy in business & at home. We are burnt out & overwhelmed.
Do you feel pressured by social media to post a highlight reel, never asking for help or feeling the freedom to be you?
A2 I’d definitely say self- care! I always put myself last and tend to get overwhelmed! #vcbuzz
— A Lovin’ Spoonful (@alovinspoonful) October 11, 2016
This is my biggest stumbling block. ME! I know I need to rest, recharge…but I skimp. Big time.
Set #intention and quiet the inner critic. Be present and let go of thoughts that don’t serve your work and life priorities. #vcbuzz
— Martha Brettschneide (@marthabrett) October 11, 2016
I prioritize my #1 project for business, family, & myself and do them first…so I can feel satisfied in a semblance of balance. ? #vcbuzz
— Danielle Tate (@Elegant_Entre) October 11, 2016
A1 @ModFemmeMove helps #women discover their own definition of #success so they can thrive at #work and at home. #vcbuzz #modernfemme
— Somer Chambley (@somerchambley) October 11, 2016
Sometimes women who work & female entrepreneurs lean more towards competition over collaboration, stagnating success.
Q3 Does work-life balance even exist?
Perfection is impossible. Progress is always possible. Find success when we aim for balance & accept our vulnerabilities.
If we work together as a community, support our quest for work/life balance we have a much better success rate team work.
Some days I rock out balance and prioritization. Most days, I need to ask for help, acknowledge my mistakes and refocus.
Why compartmentalize? Give attention to the present priority. Life IS work. #vcbuzz
— Don Sturgill (@DonSturgill) October 11, 2016
I like that @DonSturgill. No more multi-tasking. It’s impossible! Focus on the task at hand. Be present!
This saying helps me when I struggle with juggling everything as a #femalefounder #vcbuzz pic.twitter.com/9ydvm85qdT
— Danielle Tate (@Elegant_Entre) October 11, 2016
@ginaNpicayune It’s also part of putting your oxygen mask on first — can’t take care of anyone or anything else otherwise! #vcbuzz
— Martha Brettschneide (@marthabrett) October 11, 2016
Yup! @marthabrett As a #mom I forget that my oxygen mask has to go on first. But it’s crucial to everyone’s survival.
WLB affects men/women alike. Anyone with home responsibilities, WAHDads, grandparents, carers – Difficult, compromises needed #vcbuzz
— Phil Turner (@The5Currencies) October 11, 2016
YES!!
@The5Currencies – In gave up most of my business to take care of elderly parents. WLB need to focus on what’s important. #vcbuzz
— Steve Counsell (@stevecounsell) October 11, 2016
love the motto, done is better than perfect #vcbuzz
— Sales Maven (@yoursalesmaven) October 11, 2016
Step 1 work/life balance is being honest w/ yourself. You can’t be everything to everyone Figure out what needs to change.
Step 2 to work/life balance is communicating your needs and expectations to your family, friends, team and boss.
Recovery as a #workaholic is a work in progress for me. WLB is a daily choice, daily challenge. I’m on my journey!
A3 WLB is tough as a #WAHM b/c I don’t get to leave an office at the end of the day.. it’s hard to focus on home life! #VCbuzz
— A Lovin’ Spoonful (@alovinspoonful) October 11, 2016
Yes @alovinspoonful. I am so with you. The office/computer/phone is always just RIGHTTHERE. I hide my phone under the bed!
@chaosandkiddos I actually write letters to my family from time to time communicating my needs. Takes the whiny voice out. #vcbuzz
— Martha Brettschneide (@marthabrett) October 11, 2016
Work/life balance isn’t about perfect timing & multi-tasking. It’s feeling enriched, fulfilled, happy & at peace in your life.
WLB is a lifestyle choice. Perfection is a work in progress. Life is never done! Work is never done! Strive for better #vcbuzz
— Gina Burgess (@ginaNpicayune) October 11, 2016
It took me a long time to admit that the “to do” list would never be a “to done” list @ginaNpicayune. That was a BIG step.
I got feral black kittens #SidAndNyx a few weeks ago. They MAKE me take the breaks I need to take. Plus they purr. #vcbuzz
— Lori Sailiata (@LaraBrittWrites) October 11, 2016
I’ve got 2 cats, a dog, a recently acquired bearded dragon, a handful of fish and twin boys @LaraBrittWrites. Ha!
80/20 right? 20% of your efforts make 80% of your gains. Get in your daily 20 #vcbuzz
— Lori Sailiata (@LaraBrittWrites) October 11, 2016
I’ve gotten better at letting go of things I’ll have another chance to do (few do-overs with family needs). #vcbuzz
— Martha Brettschneide (@marthabrett) October 11, 2016
Q4 We’d love to be inspired! Please give us some examples of women who managed to achieve their career and family goals. Who do you look up to?
We could tweet 4EVA about the amazing women who contributed to the success of @ModFemmeMove with their inspiring stories!
Love how @JaimePrimak switches to #mom mode at 3 so that she can be present with her kids. No more work after that time!
One of our favorite @ModFemmeMove men @danijelvelicki. He has a truly inspirational American dream story. Family first!
My own coach @ritacricks inspires me to embrace a life where I seek community succeed professionally & thrive personally.
My #smallbiz partner @somerchambley has humbly navigated #career and #family, moving from the #USMC to #SAHM with grace.
A4 @MegHallMotivate inspires me! #MFM2016 lit a fire in her and I love seeing her find her success! #Inspiration #VCBuzz
— A Lovin’ Spoonful (@alovinspoonful) October 11, 2016
A4 I look up to my #daughter who decided family was more important than career TOUGH decision to leave movie biz priorities in place #vcbuzz
— Gina Burgess (@ginaNpicayune) October 11, 2016
Wow @ginaNpicayune! That was not an easy decision, I’m sure. Props to her for doing what was best for HER and her family!
For me it’s @seosmarty <3 It’s been years… Still surprises and inspires! RT @chaosandkiddos: Who inspires you? #vcbuzz
— Sana Knightly (@SanaKnightly) October 11, 2016
Isn’t that awesome @SanaKnightly? I feel the same about @somerchambley. ?
@WeAccelerateHER are doing big things for #women in #smallbiz. We are inspired & excited to work with them @ModFemmeMove.
Learn to delegate. Even to your kids. You are teaching them independence…lovingly. Servant Leadership #vcbuzz
— Lori Sailiata (@LaraBrittWrites) October 11, 2016
Q5 What are your favorite productivity tips for working moms?
Team work truly does make the #dream work. Delegate. Learn when & how to say no w/ love & authority. Don’t go it alone!
Surround yourself with friends women community that support encourage & challenge you to do better be better.
Add free time, self-care appointments & family time to your calendar. Treat them like work appointments! No canceling! Be on time!
Forgive yourself for a bad day. Love yourself. Remember you are a work in progress!
A5 Tomato Method. Work for 30-1hr, take a 5-10 minute break. Keeps creative juices flowing and still time for other things #vcbuzz
— Gina Burgess (@ginaNpicayune) October 11, 2016
Sleep!!! Productivity is tied to your ability to process, focus & execute. The sleep deprived can’t do any of these.
Also, it doesn’t always have to be a “bad day,” focus on the moment, then you can move on and let the day get better #vcbuzz
— Sales Maven (@yoursalesmaven) October 11, 2016
Remember productivity needs prioritization. Know when to say no & avoid multi-tasking. Focus on the task at hand.
Heard a successful woman phrase her no as, “I’m going to choose to say no to that.” when people ask her to do things that don’t fit #vcbuzz
— Sales Maven (@yoursalesmaven) October 11, 2016
Get your learn on! Join us @ModFemmeMove #MFM2017 to explore, discover and activate your success. Meet your tribe!
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